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Wednesday, April 21, 2010

Public Crafting WIN

Last Sunday I was sitting on a bench in Yerba Buena Gardens knitting, and two older Chinese women slowly walked by me smiling and nodding at my knitting.  I smiled back.  The younger woman, who I'm guessing is in her 60s, stopped.  She started talking to me in Chinese.  I held out my knitting to her so she could see the fabric.  She touched it and ooo'd and ahhh'd.

Somehow everything ended up in her hands and she wrapped the yarn around her finger and started knitting.  She started giggling like a little girl.  It was the most amazing thing!  She knit for a little while standing up, and then she sat down next to me on the bench and kept knitting. Her mother, who I'm guessing was in her 80s, sat on the other side of me.

I had three different colors going.  At the end of the row she would carefully twist the yarn to keep the unused colors running tightly along the edge.  Occasionally she would gesture to a new color to ask if it was time to change.  Sure.  Whatever. Just keep knitting!  She was knitting like a speed-machine.

Except for repeating "Thank you" when I said it and "Bye bye" when she left, she only spoke Chinese.  I was able to figure out that she usually uses longer needles so she can rest the right needle on her forearm when she throws English-style.  My needles were a little short for her and they occasionally fell off, which is why she sat down.

She kept trying to tell me something about her mother's sweater.  She would reach across me and pull at her mother's sweater and say something.  I have no clue what it was she was trying to tell me.  They would talk to each other, too.  I wish I'd had someone to translate.

She knit/purled around 10 rows of perfect stockinette before she stopped and handed the work back.  She smiled and waved as she walked away, "Bye bye.  Bye bye."  It was one of the most magical experiences I've ever had.  Thank goodness she didn't mind me taking a couple photos of her.  She laughed when I showed them to her on my phone.

In related news, I think I found the perfect place to have crafty meetups.  Any Bay Area crafters up for meeting in Yerba Buena Gardens on a week night or weekend day?  I probably can't commit *for sure* to going until mid-May, but that'll be here soon enough!
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Bridget B. said ...
THAT is an awesome story . . .
4/22/2010 1:23 AM

Nicole said ...
What a miraculous story. I live in the East Bay and would be totally game for a graft night at the YB
4/22/2010 2:00 AM

futuregirl replied ...
Nicole ... Yay!
4/22/2010 2:07 AM

futuregirl replied ...
Nicole ... Just wanted to let you know that a group of us is getting together tomorrow at 5:30 PM at Yerba Buena Gardens near the waterfall. Come if you can! :)
6/15/2010 1:17 PM

Amy said ...
That's such an amazing story! Thanks for sharing it :)
4/22/2010 2:07 AM

Andi said ...
How cool! This post made me smile!
4/22/2010 2:14 AM

SofiAlgarvia said ...
Such a magical story! I found myself smiling at this lady's picture wondering how a simple craft, like knitting, can work so well with two totally different cultures - You spoke the language of Crafts together!!! :)
4/22/2010 3:46 AM

Helen said ...
Wow - thanks for sharing!
4/22/2010 3:50 AM

Kristine said ...
That's awesome! It's amazing how it can be such a 'universale language'. Knitters and crocheters will always have their love of the craft in common with each other.
4/22/2010 5:36 AM

Diane Lovell said ...
That's so lovely! Soo lovely! I too had a magical chat to a little lady waiting for a train today. I wasn't knitting but you know, little old ladies always find something in common to start a connection.
4/22/2010 5:47 AM

Mary Beth said ...
Lovely story! I bet you made her day. Where I live, close to a major university, there are a lot of older chinese women here with their children, taking care of their grandchildren. They are the sweetest!
4/22/2010 6:43 AM

angela said ...
That is so wonderful! It's amazing how something as simple as knitting can bring people together even when they can't comunicate with words. Comunicating with yarn is so much more fun!
4/22/2010 7:44 AM

Carina said ...
What a beautiful story, Alice. (-:

And I think it must also have made the old lady's day.

Everyone should speak 'craft'. (-;
4/22/2010 7:52 AM

Mo said ...
There's a very large possibility that I'll be moving to SF or the East Bay this summer, and I'd love to get in on crafty meetups as a way to meet new people.
4/22/2010 8:07 AM

futuregirl replied ...
Mo ... Awesome! I totally want to make an IRL craft thing happen.
4/22/2010 1:17 PM

Kathi said ...
What a precious experience. thanks for sharing it with us.
4/22/2010 8:07 AM

Emily said ...
This is such a sweet story. I can't believe she just sat down and started knitting :) It's so great that knitting can have such a positive effect on a person. I hope she gets some needles and yarn and meets up with you again!
4/22/2010 8:25 AM

Meghan said ...
that's the most magical thing i've heard in a long time! how wonderful. i'd most definitely go to yerba buena gardens if i lived anywhere near san francisco. isn't it funny what an effect public crafting has? i've had people tell me their whole life stories because they see me knitting and it reminds them of their mother/grandmother.
4/22/2010 9:04 AM

snarflemarfle said ...
What a beautiful story! It gave me goosebumps! I so love that even though neither one of you had any idea what the other was saying, you both understood the knitting! WIN!
4/22/2010 9:50 AM

Lisa said ...
that is the cutest story ever! Thanks for sharing that!
4/22/2010 9:51 AM

cindy said ...
Such a sweet story! Crafting is not limited by generation nor language! Maybe she was trying to say that knit her mother's sweater or asking if you were knitting your mother a sweater? Either way, wouldn't it be nice if your paths crossed again?
4/22/2010 10:20 AM

Scatterbox said ...
Adorable story alert! That's fantastic. My in-laws used to live in China for work and we had the opportunity to visit them a few times. Some of the best memories are interactions with the people there when neither one of us knew what the poo the other was saying. It was the smiles and excitement of somehow just getting their drift that made it awesome. It's so important when you encounter other cultures to show respect and an effort to understand. We're all so much alike.
4/22/2010 11:07 AM

Sara said ...
I love this story! How amazing! Makes me smile. :)
4/22/2010 11:11 AM

T said ...
What a -great- story!

(And what a great concept for a meet-up... someone starts knitting something and then after a while just - passes it along - no talking about what's happening, what the plan is, the pattern is, the colour-scheme is, the next person just takes it and starts knitting and after a while hands it off, too, for the same thing to happen.. especially when crafty people are chatting/distracted by other good people; I wonder what you'd end up with!!)
4/22/2010 12:03 PM

susan said ...
How magical and wonderful!
4/22/2010 12:22 PM

What a fantastic experience! Thanks for sharing this story.
4/22/2010 1:16 PM

Michelle said ...
That sounds like a fun little encounter! I don't know anyone in my area that knits or crochets. Maybe I can find some fellow crafters if I do it in a public place? I know there are some around. I gotta get these people out of the closet! LOL!
4/22/2010 1:41 PM

angelina said ...
I love experiences like this! What a great story.
4/22/2010 1:49 PM

Aimee said ...
Wow! Magical is definitely the word. What a lovely experience.
4/22/2010 2:02 PM

Donna said ...
What a fabulous story. I would love to know what she was trying to say to you.
4/22/2010 2:15 PM

Kate said ...
That is a wonderful story!
4/22/2010 2:43 PM

Ingrid said ...
What a great experience and story! Linking to you to share with my friends.
4/22/2010 3:21 PM

What a lovely story!! Put a :) on my face.
4/22/2010 4:38 PM

Kuky said ...
I might have known what she was saying. You could have called me. :)

But then of course it might not have been so magical.
4/22/2010 4:50 PM

futuregirl replied ...
Kuky ... Ack! I didn't even think to call you. :) But you're right. For all I know, she was saying that the yellow and blue combo was super-ugly. ha!
4/22/2010 4:58 PM

Anne said ...
How awesome! I love this so much.

I would be down for a meet up and Yerba Buena is a nice place to do it. I've lived in SF too long not to know many crafty folk.
4/22/2010 8:24 PM

futuregirl replied ...
Anne ... ... Just wanted to let you know that a group of us is getting together tomorrow at 5:30 PM at Yerba Buena Gardens near the waterfall. Come if you can! :)
6/15/2010 1:21 PM

Lynn said ...
Fiberarts truly are a universal language.

I had a similar experience with my drop spindle and a woman from Iran. Her very American, college-aged daughter never knew that her mother learned how to spin from *her* grandmother, when they spent their summers in the mountains growing up. It was a multi-generational, multi-lingual experience I will never forget.
4/22/2010 8:39 PM

chidori said ...
You're so lucky, truly! Indeed I think this experience was very magical, transcending the barriers of culture and language. She looks so sweet too, a little like my Grandma who amazed me with her crocheted roses that she'd whip out in a minute when I was first learning.

Ah, to be back West! I'd love to just know someone where I am who'd like to meet even occasionally to knit, sew, crochet, or just craft ...
4/22/2010 9:26 PM

LeeAnn said ...
I love this story of spontaneous knitting! Who needs a second language when you have knitting!
4/22/2010 10:39 PM

Leitadala said ...
So cool!
4/22/2010 11:30 PM

Jenean said ...
This goes to show that some things are universal and cross all language barriers. Thanks for sharing such a beautiful story.
4/22/2010 11:54 PM

Jennifer Rose said ...
that is so cool :D it is amazing how art and crafts can bridge a language barrier
4/23/2010 6:03 AM

Amy said ...
This is such a sweet story, I can practically hear her giggle. I had a very heavily accented young lady and her toddler daughter watching me crochet in a coffee shop the other day, she finally came over and asked what it was called and that her mother used to to that with 2 pointed sticks. I told her that was knitting and noted the differences ans similarities. She got a bit teary. When I asked her if she was alright, she said that it was just reminding her of her mom who died in the Bosnian war.

I was touched that something like this could be such a strong memory for her. She regained her composure and asked if it was easy to learn since she always thought the knitting was hard. She wanted to learn to crochet in memory of her mom.
4/23/2010 7:54 AM

futuregirl replied ...
Amy ... Thank you so much for sharing this story with me. It seems that knowledge that is passed on from person to person creates very strong bonds for us. (sorry for taking so long to respond to your sweet comment ...)
1/27/2011 4:38 PM

Misha said ...
How cool is that? Knitting and Crocheting in public are sure fire conversation starters. It's awesome you could communicate despite the language barrier. Thanx for sharing - I really got a kick out of your post.
4/23/2010 10:34 AM

Jess said ...
"Any Bay Area crafters up for meeting in Yerba Buena Gardens on a week night or weekend day?"

YES, meee! I was at the last Craft bar, and had SO much fun. I even won some tickets to makerfaire :D I have never gone to a crafty meetup, stitch n bitch, or anything of the sort before, and I really enjoyed Craft Bar. Yerba Buena is the perfect location, so I'll (shyly) join!
4/23/2010 10:52 AM

futuregirl replied ...
Jess ... We are getting a group together for tomorrow at 5:30 PM at Yerba Buena Gardens near the waterfall. Come if you can! :)
6/15/2010 1:43 PM

Craft Passion said ...
I wish I was there when it happened, at least I can be the translator :p
It is truly a magical moment to have someone share your craft!!!
Love it and I smiled while reading it :)
4/23/2010 11:10 AM

joyce said ...
What a wonderful encounter! Handiwork transcends many boundaries it seems!
4/23/2010 11:56 AM

bethany said ...
That was an amazing story..

I'd love to do a Yerba Buena Gardens Craft-In... that was where Mr. Bitter proposed to me. One knee and everything.
4/23/2010 12:08 PM

futuregirl replied ...
Bethany ... We are getting a group together for tomorrow at 5:30 PM at Yerba Buena Gardens near the waterfall if you're up for it! :)
6/15/2010 1:44 PM

Tara said ...
That's a great story, Alice. Sounds like you both had a lot of fun.
4/23/2010 3:24 PM

pam said ...
What a touching, beautiful story. To find yourself connecting with another person without language but through shared experience. I am quite certain you will never forget her.
4/23/2010 7:53 PM

minnie said ...
nice! what a lovely experience. I bet you made their day too!

I wish my craftiness extended to more mobile things. I COULD bring my sewing machine to yerba buena on bart... but it might get ugly. :P
4/23/2010 8:40 PM

futuregirl replied ...
Minnie ... There's *nothing* you could bring to the park? :) We're meeting up tomorrow near the water falls at 5:30. We'd love to see you there.
6/15/2010 1:51 PM

julia said ...
Ok - that is just too adorable for words!
I'd be up for some public yarn crafting. It's hard for me to commit to a certain day/time but If you post where you'll be I promise I'll tray to make it when I can :)
4/24/2010 1:55 AM

futuregirl replied ...
Julia ... We are getting a group together for tomorrow at 5:30 PM at Yerba Buena Gardens near the waterfall. Come if you can! :)
6/15/2010 1:51 PM

Becka said ...
I don't know what it is that you are knitting, but I love the idea that from now on it can't help but remind you of this wonderful little encounter. The story has become a part of the piece - knitted in, if you will.
4/24/2010 9:40 AM

Bonnie said ...
I love experiences like that.

I would venture to guess that you made her day by bringing back sweet memories.
4/24/2010 11:09 PM

Kimberly Pye said ...
I LOVE this story! I'd have been on a cloud the rest of the day...
4/25/2010 4:26 PM

minnie said ...
oh I was thinking too. have you considered going to church of craft? we meet once a month in oakland at RPS!! join us!
4/25/2010 6:30 PM

futuregirl replied ...
minni ... There never seems to be anything planned when I've checked the site. :( Do you guys have a big group?
7/15/2010 11:47 PM

Lovely.
4/26/2010 8:39 PM

tonilea said ...
Oh, my gosh. I came here by way of Friendly Paper blog and have spent WAY TOO MUCH time here already and I can't wait to come back. You have the greatest sense of humor. I have laughed so hard. And your work is just great. Would so love to meet you in person but that will probably not happen! Just keep the blog rolling and I will come see you again!
4/27/2010 4:30 PM

futuregirl replied ...
tonilea ... Oh, you are too sweet! Thank you for the wonderful comment. :) Sorry it took me so long to respond!
7/15/2010 11:23 PM

Susie said ...
What a neat story! Funny how you were able to communicate, through knitting, even though you didn't speak the same language, huh?
4/28/2010 6:14 AM

That would be so awesome! Also, the crafty meetup sounds fun. I run one every Tuesday at a cafe in Oakland but people are always asking me if I know of any good ones on the weekends, and if it works out I will send them your way!
4/28/2010 7:15 PM

futuregirl replied ...
Chase ... We are getting a group together for tomorrow at 5:30 PM at Yerba Buena Gardens near the waterfall. Come if you can! :) We may try a weekend one someday.
6/15/2010 1:53 PM

Marg said ...
What a brilliant story! Thanks for sharing it with us -- and the pictures too!
4/28/2010 7:25 PM

jenn said ...
what a great story to share! i'm sure you absolutely made her day.
4/29/2010 3:00 PM

Polly Pocket said ...
Neat.
4/29/2010 6:12 PM

urban craft said ...
That is hilarious, it's a like a flash mob, only with knitting and without the mob. Well, maybe not so much like flash mob.
Why didn't I know about your blog when I was living in cali? But who am I kidding, I didn't know a damn thing about knitting back then.

Like how you were able to photo document the moment. Iphone shots or do you always have your camera on hand? I am finding I need to carry the camera with me all the time lately.
4/30/2010 10:54 PM

futuregirl replied ...
urban craft ... gah! I got really behind in answering comments! Sorry. I used my nothing-special samsung phone. I'd love to carry around a camera, but I'm not *that* organized. :)
6/15/2010 1:55 PM

JB Tucker said ...
What a great story and a great park. Thanks for sharing this story! It's soon going to be too hot here in Austin to do anything remotely crafty outside.
5/1/2010 9:32 PM

Margit said ...
That is so cool! And a lovely story - im sitting here smiling - that is just an 'aha' moment - great!
5/4/2010 2:51 PM

Karen said ...
That bought tears to my eyes - combination of laughter and emotion. Think they made your day and you made their day. Priceless moment!
5/4/2010 5:41 PM

Adrienne said ...
What an amazing experience! YES, YES, I would love to meet up sometime. I cannot knit worth a darn but I could definitely bring another crafty project along with me. :)
5/4/2010 7:49 PM

futuregirl replied ...
Adrienne ... We are getting together tomorrow at 5:30 in Yerba Buena near the waterfalls. Come if you can! :)
6/15/2010 1:56 PM

Lydia said ...
Awesome story. I'd be down for a knitting meet up
5/6/2010 2:47 PM

futuregirl replied ...
Lydia ... ... We are getting together tomorrow at 5:30 in Yerba Buena near the waterfalls. Come if you can! :)
6/15/2010 1:57 PM

Carrie said ...
What a nice story. I am sometimes a little hesitant to knit in public. I feel like everyone is wondering why I am knitting when there is a perfectly good store down the block. This makes me want to knit in public!

Thanks!

Carrie
5/6/2010 9:34 PM

I loved this post! So brilliant the way art can connect people and speak wonders. I've shared this post via link on my blog. A direct link to it is: http://rosiegirldreams.com/http:/rosiegirldreams.com/2010/6-sharing-saturday/sharing-saturday-2010-05-08-earth-day-give-away-winner/
Thanks for such a thoughtful and well articulated article...and for glorious crafting!
Rosie Girl
www.rosiegirldreams.com
5/9/2010 12:39 AM

Brie said ...
I'm new - I've used your tutorials for embroidery stitches before, and now I'm reading some more of your blog. I repeated that story to my husband and told him how sweet and fun that would be to have someone be a part of a project like that. Oh, and I'm about 1 1/2 hrs away (Travis AFB) - but I'd love to be part of the fun! I need to meet other craft people (to learn from too LOL). Great story, great blog!!
5/10/2010 2:55 AM

futuregirl replied ...
Brie ... Goodness, I'm so behind on replying to comments. I hope it's not too weird to respond so late. :) Thank you for such a sweet comment. I bet there are lots of people in your area who would love a crafty get together. You should start one! :)
7/15/2010 10:57 PM

Miranda said ...
That is the most awesome story ever! Makes me want to knit in public now, haha! :D
5/18/2010 9:32 PM

ana said ...
ooh that gave me chills! the good kind.
5/20/2010 7:07 PM

Ebony said ...
Ohh my goodness that is magical. Craft brings us together.
5/24/2010 8:35 AM
 
isa said ...
this is such a lovely story Alice...thanks so much for sharring your little craft adventure <3
6/9/2010 2:10 AM

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