Sunday, March 09, 2008

Keep Your Weakness Intact

The plan for the sewing machine cover is starting to come together.  I've pulled out the vintage German fabric that Isa sent me eons ago.  I'd love to use them in a way that I will see them every day.  I like how they look with the Victorian lady, too.

The next embroidered part is going to be a quote.  I've always been fascinated by words.  I love letters, words, sentences.  Verbalizing things has a strange power that I've never fully understood.  The quote is from Henri Michaux from his book Tent Posts:

Keep your weakness intact.   Don't try to acquire strengths, above all those that aren't for you, not meant for you, that nature has preserved you from, preparing you for something else.


I love that *you* were preserved from the strength and not the other way around.  I've never (fully) subscribed to the self-improvement crazes of our culture.  They always seem so empty and sheep-like.  Do we all really want to be exactly the same?  Do we really want to be perfect?  How freeing would it be to tell people (and have them believe) that the way they *really* are can be used to their advantage?

Instead of spending your life and energy trying to become something else (which will never work), why not embrace what you've got?  Look at what a unibrow and a moustache did for Frida Kahlo.  Since reading this quote, I've adjusted the way I think about myself.  I try not to be embarrassed by or to correct my faults.  Instead, I try to see how they make me unique.  I try to see what I've been prepared for.
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Stitchify said ...
3/9/2008 5:31 PM
I love that! Thank you for sharing.


Dawn Elizableth said ...
3/9/2008 8:12 PM
I was just reading a book on mediating and it talked about the same thing. How we should embrace who we are. I love the quote.


nikkishell said ...
3/9/2008 8:51 PM
Totally off the topic of your post, i just wrote a post about working from home and organising youryelf on BurdaStyle. Then this morning i listened to a CraftyPod podcast and you were on it! Talking about crafty overload and it totally related :) Thanks for the tips you shared.
Your stitching is looking mighty fine too!


Moxie said ...
3/9/2008 10:52 PM
That's an excellent quote. I love the idea of directing my energy where it already naturally wants to go... I can't wait to see the cover!


est said ...
3/9/2008 11:12 PM
gorgeous fabrics!!!
not embarrased+wrong=unique
got it! :)


Bitterbetty said ...
3/9/2008 11:26 PM
Just one more excuse for why I don't knit..
courtesy of deep thinkin' Futuregirl.

But in as much serious as i can ever muster: that is a seriously useful epiphany.

and it look like the cover will be great.


hookandyarn said ...
3/10/2008 7:26 AM
It's refreshing to see someone who's not afraid to be themselves. Conformity can be very boring. Great post!


Cassandra said ...
3/10/2008 12:10 PM
That's a really interesting idea. Although I think it could be used for evil—— i.e. "I'm going to be a non-conformist by never vacuuming again" is that silly or could I really convince my husband I'm trying to embrace my true self? ;)


Shannon said ...
3/10/2008 1:16 PM
So wise. I totally agree. I'm a huge fan of Ayn Rand and her book Anthem really emphasizes individuality.

I love my flaws. I love how I always mix up my words and create new ones. I love that I don't always make the "right" decision... Those things make me *Me*.

And I love the fabrics!


futuregirl said ...
3/10/2008 1:24 PM
Cassandra -- The point isn't to be a non-conformist, the point is to embrace yourself, faults and all.

I'm not sure why you don't want to vacuum ... maybe you don't like cleaning. So instead of beating yourself up trying to get yourself to be a happy-cleaning-machine, just accept that you're never going to like it, even while you've gotta do it.


Blue said ...
3/10/2008 2:30 PM
Hooray for differences/weaknesses/oddities/weirdnesses/uniquenesses and all of the other 'nesses that make us, well... US!

:)


xoxo


lori said ...
3/10/2008 2:33 PM
I've been lurking here a bit lately and finally had to comment.

Thank you for sharing this quote! I love it and the idea of being the best "you" that you can be rather than trying to be a good or passable someone else.

Anyway, thanks for all the bits of inspiration here (which I see while I'm at work... shh)


Cassandra said ...
3/11/2008 3:17 PM
Hi, I was totally kidding about the vacuum bit. I guess I got stuck on your comment about self improvement as 'empty and sheep-like'. So I sort of had to make a joke about it since I'm a big believer in actively improving oneself.

Anyway, your work is GREAT!


futuregirl said ...
3/11/2008 3:31 PM
Thanks, Cassandra! :)

I just don't like it when self-improvement crosses over into the realm of self-hate, or when it's goal is to make us conform to one single standard.


mellowbeing said ...
3/11/2008 11:52 PM
You are wise beyond your years. That's exactly the secret to living a happy life :)


Robyn said ...
3/12/2008 12:34 AM
the Victorian lady is STUNNING!!!!


MOONSTITCHES said ...
3/15/2008 9:52 AM
Well, I have a lot of flaws and faults to embrace, which I do, wholeheartedly, in many cases, yet, on some points I want to improve myself, to act accordingly to the way I think I would act if I wasn't that damn lazy.
A great quote, Alice.

 
deirdre said ...
4/16/2008 5:10 PM
I was watching American Idol the other night and was struck by how dull Syesha is. She's lovely and has a lovely voice and is exceedingly DULL. Then I realized it's because she's so busy being perfect that her personality doesn't exist. There's nothing there but a smooth surface.

I never really realized how personality, not perfection, elevates a person.

No more self-help books for me. I'm going to be a personality.


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