Friday, June 29, 2007

Seven Random Facts

Seven Random Things (or stories) about Futuregirl

I was tagged by Elizabeth of Crafts of Destiny, Michelle of Green Kitchen (months and months ago when it was 6 weird things) and Jen of Mellow Being.  Enjoy!

1. I asked my mother to make my prom dress.  I hated all the poofy, frilly, pastel dresses of the mid-80s.  We went to the fabric store together where I picked out the Vogue pattern and the fabric (satin with a lace overlay on the bodice).  Since we moved in between my sophomore year and my junior year I was able to wear it twice without anyone knowing.  It made sense to me to ask Mom to make it because I'm super picky and completely inflexible.  It never occurred to me how very nerdy it is to ask your Mom make your clothes.  And, you know what, I still don't care, because I loved that dress. The hairstyles?  Those are definitely cringe-worthy.  I was addicted to my curling iron and L'Oreal's Studio Fix hairspray.  That stuff will make your hair stiff as wire.

2. In First Grade, I had a great baby sitter who lived kitty-corner to the elementary school.  She watched a bunch of kids, but she took the time to teach me how to knit one day.  I remember sitting on the floor in the hallway of her huge farm-house-y home slowly, carefully knitting one stitch at a time.  I felt so smart, like she'd taught me a secret.  I think I actually knitted enough to use my swatch as a scarf.  I haven't knitted since.

3. The first week after I moved to San Francisco from Kansas City in 1992, I started temping as the receptionist  for a big-wig chef in his administrative offices.  A couple days into the gig, I got a call from someone who asked for the chef.  Of course, he talked to no one (not even me - for real, I think he talked to me three times in the 7 months I worked there).  So I asked the person's name and he told me, and I asked where he was calling from, and the guy yelled, "Do you live under a fucking rock?!"  I said, "Hold please," and pressed the hold button.  To the chef's assistant, I said, "There's some asshole on the phone who wants to talk to Jeremiah."  "Who is it?" she asks.  I replied, "Herb Caen."  The whole place stood up and started fluttering around the office in a panic, "Put him through!  Put him through!"  The next day I had a list of all the important people who might call Jeremiah.  My joke, after that, was that I thought Kansas *did* qualify as "under a rock."

5. I used online dating sites (like webpersonals.com, match.com, etc.) to meet guys for years in San Francisco.  After a dating a couple guys who lived outside of the city (which is a nightmare when you don't have a car), I created a search to only find guys who lived within a mile of me. After a couple weeks, Andrew (now my husband) popped into my search results.  We lived 3 blocks away from each other.

6. I smoked from about 18 to 28 (with a year and a half near the end when I quit before starting again).  I quit for good about 3 months before I met Andrew.  I've been smoke-free for over 7 years.  I worry about the health effects sometimes.

7. I love dancing. For a couple years in San Francisco, several of my friends and I took ballroom dancing lessons.  Once a week we would pay the per-class rate at the Arthur Murray School of Dance which was on the second floor of the building at Market and Van Ness (there is a Walgreen's there now).  I learned how to dance the Waltz, Fox Trot, Hustle, Salsa, Merengue, Cha Cha, Swing, Samba, Tango and probably more.  My favorite was the Hustle. So. Much. Fun.  I also took several Street Swing classes at a local bar where I learned how to do aerials.
12 Comments leave a comment


est said ...
6/30/2007 12:56 AM
what an exciting life!:)


Kuky said ...
6/30/2007 1:39 AM
What very fun stories! This is going to be a long comment. I have something to say on it all!! Maybe because I've been quiet for two weeks so now I just need to talk/type nonstop!

I have a friend who made all of her daughter's prom dresses. I want to say it was maybe 9 years ago. I didn't sew back then but I didn't think it was nerdy at all. She made the most beautiful dresses...

How come you didn't knit anymore after that one scarf swatch?

And the asshole on the phone, so surprising that people talk like that, so self important that they think everyone should know them.

How cool that Andrew was only 3 blocks away from you and it took online dating for you two to meet. Maybe my friend Bridgette needs to keep trying.

And smoke free for 7 years. Good for you! When I was little my grandmother smoked. I grew up hating the smell of it and never had an interest in it. Maybe the same reason why I don't drink, seeing my mom.

And ballroom dancing! My parents did ballroom dancing. Maybe even around the same time you did. Wonder where they took classes.

Ok I'm all talked/typed out.


Green Kitchen said ...
6/30/2007 2:14 AM
Wow! You can do aerials? I'm so impressed. I could never even Lindy -- too stiff or something.

Love the Herb Caen story. I think everyone I know has a J.T. story. It's one degree of Jeremiah Towers, not six. Or, would that be two? Anyway, cool list. Sorry I tagged you. I think I'm going to keep away from memes and maybe swapping.


Green Kitchen said ...
6/30/2007 2:16 AM
Oh, I see you dated Flock of Seagulls. I dated (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Image:ABCversion1.jpg) ABC.


oldround said ...
6/30/2007 10:28 AM
When I saw the photos pop up I felt giddy. Are you older in the photo on the left? or is it the right? And did you move from a big city to a small?
I could go on about the guy's hair but I think Michelle has summed it up perfectly.


SisterDG said ...
6/30/2007 11:25 AM
Oh . . . I LOVE your date's hair in the right-hand photo! Brings back memories. The dress is indeed awesome - I'd have been proud to wear one to my prom.


futuregirl said ...
6/30/2007 12:34 PM
I'm 16 in the left-hand photo, and I'm 17 in the right hand photo. We moved around a lot.

Until I moved to San Francisco, I'd never lived in the same house/apartment for longer than two years. In the photo on the left, we lived in a bustling suburb of Kansas City where I had 1000 kids in my grade. In the photo on the right, we lived in a tiny city in Michigan where I had 100 people in my grade.

Mr. Flock of Seagulls went to a neighboring high school. He hung out with the skate board dudes in our high school with whom my sister and I were friends. I had a total crush on him. I asked him to my prom and he said yes. I think he was already dating someone at his high school, so there wasn't any big romance. This was the only date we ever had.

I'm not sure why I never knitted again. Well, maybe it's because all the women in my family crochet - that seems like an obvious answer, why didn't I think of that right away? I'd love to knit again, but I'm saving it for later when I have more free time.

Yes, I can do *some* aerials, but I'm no acrobat. The guy I took the Street Swing lessons with was a friend I met at So What (goth/industrial dance club held at Maritime Hall that I frequented for 5-6 years). One night at the goth club, we decided to Swing to Tainted Love. We were doing aerials and everything. Since he was throwing me and my 5-inch platform boots around the place, a circle formed around us on the normally crowded dance floor. When the song ended, we were booed. Apparently there was a dance rivalry going on between goth dancing and swing dancing ... who knew? :) I'm making it sound a little more dramatic than it was ... only a couple of people booed us.


capello said ...
7/2/2007 7:53 AM
first of all, your date in the second photo had The Best Hair Ever. he could have blended in with flock of seagulls, no problem. no wonder you went out with him. seriously. awesomest. hair.

and, pha, kansas is not a rock. i don't care that i didn't know either one of those people, not a rock! not a rock! not a rock!

um. okay. maybe a little bit of a rock.


meg said ...
7/2/2007 10:39 AM
i love the smell of l'oreal studio line stuff - i used it pretty exclusively in the 80s.

i smoked for years, too. and i recently had a part-time stint at a tobacco help-line. i learned that all the bad health effects diminish until eventually you have the same risks as someone who never smoked.

great random stuff!


AmberCake said ...
7/2/2007 2:06 PM
#4! NUMBER FOUR! YOU'RE MISSING ONE! Don't try to pretend you're doing SEVEN random things by skipping #4!

I'm just dying, because the rest is all so! good! and so! fantastic! of course I want more!

Um, I sould like a stalker now, which you know I'm not, but I'm shutting up.

The prom, the hair, the dancing... it's all grand


ambika said ...
7/2/2007 4:10 PM
I have noooo idea who Herb Caen is. The link was very necessary.

Flock of Seagulls? Oh my God, yes.

I met the boy via the internets as well. He lived about 9 blocks from me at the time. Funny, how that works.

 
Jen said ...
7/8/2007 10:38 PM
Oh yay! You did the 7 things :)

That's too funny/weird about meeting your husband. Some of my best friends live only a few blocks away and I met them first through an online community site. Go figure. I guess this Internet thing is social after all heh.


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