Tuesday, December 04, 2007

Lenore's Got Mad Skillz

** update: pattern available as free download **

Last January, I got the sweetest email from a woman named Lenore asking for the pattern for Octophrost.  She told me:

"Every year I make a Christmas ornament for my grand and great grand children.  I would love to make this little fellow.  For Christmas 2006 I made 90 ornaments.  Three more babies are expected that I know of so I may need to make near 100.  That means starting early."

The pattern was no where near ready.  I wanted to be a part of her Christmas plans, so I worked hard to get something together.  I sent her the pattern in mid-February, about 2 months before I posted it.

In that time, we corresponded a little and I learned a more about Lenore.  She's 73 (maybe 74 now).  She sent me a picture from a recent family reunion, and I cried when I opened it up and saw all those wonderful people.  In fact, it's making me cry right now just thinking about it.  It's overwhelming to think that, however tangentially, I'm a part of their heart-felt, hand made, family tradition.

I've also kept in touch with Lenore's daughter Lucy, of My Byrd House. She's given me updates over the last year, and it's been so fun to think about Lenore patiently (I imagine) and lovingly sewing 99 Octophrosts for her family.  She's posted lots of pictures on her blog.  The tree in the picture above has 99 Octophrosts on it!

I want Lenore to know how honored and thankful I am that she chose Octophrost for her ornament this year.  I also want her to know that she's a wonderful example to all of us of how to make the moments of our life personal and memorable.  This experience will always be a treasured memory for me.  I hope that in my own life, I'm able to spread such warmth and joy to the people around me.
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Oh my GOODNESS! I would have cried too :P That is the most fantastic picture ever, what a lovely thing to do!
12/4/2007 8:20 PM

OldRound said ...
That is a major karmic score! What a lady!
12/4/2007 8:24 PM

Blaize said ...
In the magic undersea world of Octophrosts, felt seahorses, and wee fish, Futuregirl is worshiped as a goddess. The small creatures honor their creator with tiny parties, funny hats, and the loving decoration of seaweed trees with shells, limpets, and little phosphorescent creatures.
12/4/2007 8:30 PM

planetjune said ...
Wow... just wow... What an amazing picture!
12/4/2007 8:56 PM

Jennifer said ...
Look at that lovely tree filled with your wonderful design. How beautiful!
12/4/2007 9:16 PM

Gene said ...
Gosh! That's a lot and so sweet! I love reading these kind of posts, makes me want to start on my own project. Really inspiring and gives a lot of motivation.
12/4/2007 9:23 PM

Jen said ...
Wow! That is amazing...What a wonderful thing!
12/4/2007 9:30 PM

Bitterbetty said ...
Oh lordy.. I was just talking with my mom about consuming and crafting and all that and telling her I am not sure what I want out of my craft.

Now I know. I want to inspire someone like Lenore.

That is amazing.
12/4/2007 9:43 PM

Lucy said ...
Thank you Alice! That made me cry again. My mom has treated the last couple of Christmases as if they might be the last. I hope not but this is one of the best late additions. The care taken in making this little man expresses her love for her whole family. You have been such a wonderful friend to share this family tradition with.
12/4/2007 9:48 PM

LeeAnn said ...
That is the most fantastic thing I ever did read/see. Look at that tree! You are going to be apart of that family's Xmas each year! How wonderful!
12/4/2007 9:50 PM

angeliclenore said ...
Us grandkids are very lucky to have such a loving, giving, caring, wonderful grandma! Thanks again Grandma!
12/4/2007 10:22 PM

Anonymous said ...
absolutely wonderful!

i heart Seasonal stories :)

i'm sure you are, but once again you deserve to be proud :)

thank you for sharing

morethanblue (designs -? who knows, watch this space, i guess)

http://devlin0906.livejournal.com
12/4/2007 10:28 PM

Junie Moon said ...
Lenore's story is making me cry right now. I think what she's doing is such a beautiful thing that will always bring joy and good memories to her family. Good for her!
12/4/2007 10:45 PM

Green Kitchen said ...
How hip is she for a great grandma? First she reads your blog, then she makes 99 Octophrosts -- it might be the best craft blog story ever. It's Phrostastic!
12/4/2007 11:24 PM

Cassi @ Bella Dia said ...
*This* is what makes "handmade" so great! Lovely, lovely post :)
12/4/2007 11:41 PM

liz elayne said ...
this story is fantastic!!! look at that tree...oh my goodness.
lenore is amazing!
thank you for sharing this wonderful story...
12/4/2007 11:44 PM

est said ...
wow!so SO great! i know how you feel about being so honoured! it's like the possibility of one in a hundred for you to stumbled with this great grandma and another one in a million that she willing to put so much effort in making 99 octophrost!!amazing!
12/4/2007 11:51 PM

Anonymous said ...
That is crazy, sweet, incredible and
wonderful! I'm speechless and teary too. Wow!

-myra
www.mylittlemochi.typepad.com
12/5/2007 12:47 AM

Kuky said ...
Damn that is an amazing picture!
12/5/2007 2:57 AM

Hilde C. said ...
What a beautiful tradition. I think presents like that are the ones you really remember and cherish :)
12/5/2007 6:28 AM

macati said ...
OK... I'm in the library and holding my tears... trust me it's not being easy! people are already looking and analysing me
12/5/2007 7:49 AM

stacysews said ...
Wow, that's amazing - and a wonderful story too!
12/5/2007 8:15 AM

Inger C said ...
What an amazing woman. Her wormth is spreading all the way to us in Sweden. This is Christmas as it's best. :-)
12/5/2007 9:01 AM

Funky Finds said ...
holy canoli! that is freaking awesome!!!!
12/5/2007 9:06 AM

Melissa said ...
That is the coolest Christmas tree that I have EVER seen!
12/5/2007 9:40 AM

Cheryl said ...
I love this. It made me cry too. I love women like Lenore...
12/5/2007 10:53 AM

Anonymous said ...
I am one of the 99 grandchildren that loves her grandma so very much. I am 28 years old and I have an ornament on my tree for each Christmas since I was about 3 years old. Every year I carefully place the ornaments on my tree and remember the excitment I felt when we got Grandama's package in the mail and how our eyes grew as we opened it. My Chrstmas tree truly bares the mark of unconditional love. Thank you grandma for such a wonderful gift, and thank you for helping get the pattern available to my grandma and posting such a wonderful story about her. - Laura Orr
12/5/2007 11:28 AM

normanack said ...
What a lucky family to have that grandma -- and I do believe you have just received the honor of a lifetime. Fantastic!

Also, who would have thought that a tree full of octopi would be so incredibly lovely? It is one of the nicest decorated trees I've ever seen.
12/5/2007 11:39 AM

Goiuri said ...
Wow!! Is fantastic!!!
12/5/2007 11:43 AM

Alisa said ...
I am one of the lucky grandchildren. And my granmother really is amazing. She has raised a large (LARGE) family who all respect and love creating. We are all in her debt for the handmade legacy she has given us.
12/5/2007 12:59 PM

JennyC.No3 said ...
I'm such a sap and this made me tear up ...
12/5/2007 1:51 PM

stephanie s said ...
well, if there was ever any doubt as to why you blogged and put yourself and your creations out there, then this has had to make you believe in all that you do. what a wonderful story - what a wonderful gift.
12/5/2007 2:09 PM

Sarah J. said ...
Oh wow!! That is really something special! What a wonderful memory for you to have :D
12/5/2007 3:32 PM

Biff said ...
WOW! what a tree full. & I thought I made lots of decorations but my work is nothing in comparrison to Lenore! Well done Lenore. Alice you should be so proud of yourself too!
12/5/2007 4:59 PM

Claire said ...
Just gorgeous!
12/5/2007 6:38 PM

Love Squalor said ...
this is just too awesome! you both rock!
12/5/2007 7:39 PM

gleek said ...
wow! that's amazing! go lenore!
12/5/2007 7:47 PM

Dorie said ...
wow! Some people are so thoroughly gifted.
12/5/2007 8:05 PM

nyjlm said ...
what a beautiful story! Every bit of it. And I love the responses from some of her grandkids. So glad you and Lenore found each other.
12/5/2007 10:33 PM

mlok said ...
This is so lovely. That story makes me almost unreasonably happy! Thank-you for sharing it!
12/6/2007 3:23 AM

Blake said ...
Sweetest thing I've heard all day. Thank you!
12/6/2007 8:15 AM

What an amazing woman! Crafting is so good for the soul, but when you inspire someone else, it makes your heart sing.
12/6/2007 8:48 AM

Anonymous said ...
I only have one thing to say...

Ph'nglui mglw'nafh Cthulhu R'lyeh wgah'nagl fhtagn.
12/6/2007 12:59 PM

This story has seriously warmed the cockles of my heart (as we say in England). Who'd have thought that such a small octopus could have such a massive impact? I'd read both your post and Lenore's daughter's at least five times!
12/6/2007 5:31 PM

Sonya said ...
That is incredible. Absolutely incredible.
12/7/2007 11:40 AM

mmnics said ...
God! grandmas are the best! I missing mine a lot more because of those Octophrosts, and they are really cute too!
12/7/2007 8:35 PM

Rebecca Lesue said ...
I am one of those grandchildren, and my four children are some of those great grandchildren. My tree full of 29 years of ornaments is a tree full of happiness. It may not be perfectly "coordinated" like the trees you see in Better Homes and Gardens, but to me it is the most beautiful tree in the world. I noticed that someone who commented (anonymously of course) thinks that my grandmother should not have so many decendents. Well her 12 children include a kindergarten teacher, a world famous potter, a first grade teacher, a high school english teacher, 4 stay at home moms with awesome crafting and musical talents, a medical transcriber, an English as a second language teacher, a very successful steel & concrete contractor in San Diego, and truck driver/quarry man.

Her grand children who are grown are artists, teachers (both in college and grade schools), business owners, agricultural chemists, pharmasists, doctors, solar physicists, and devoted stay-home-moms. None of them use drugs, alcohol, or even smoke. I say we need more big families like this that make a positive impact on society.

People like the anonymous commentor who automatically assume that big families are stupid or a drain on society are not so clever as they think they are.
12/8/2007 2:27 PM

futuregirl said ...
I'm so sad you saw that comment, Rebecca! But I'm glad you said something. I didn't get the alert from Blogger about half of those comments, so I didn't even know it was there. I deleted it. Ugh!

The sad truth is that most of the web is full of people called trolls who delight in leaving snarky comments. Believe me when I say that I would never have allowed a comment like that on my website for more than a couple of seconds. The crafting community is always sweet and supportive, as you can see from the rest of the comments.

I've been so happy to be a small part of your family's wonderful Christmas tradition. I'm sorry that someone tried to make light of it, especially on my blog.
12/8/2007 2:45 PM

Rebecca Lesue said ...
Thanks :) I did see that everyone else was so nice. I hesitated to say anything because I didn't want to add anything negative to your wonderful blog--which I love to visit. I think you are awesome, and I am totally happy that you created octophrost and my grandmother made him.
12/8/2007 8:40 PM

Alison said ...
To all of Lenore's family, and Futuregirl,

I'm appalled that someone left such a horrible comment and I really hope that it hasn't undone the good feeling and positive vibes from all around the world.

Sending you lots of love from New Zealand, Alison x x x

ps I feel almost connected because I have ornament swapped this year with Lenore's daughter Lucy. I LOVE the way that swapping and blogging brings us all closer.

x x x
12/9/2007 2:38 PM

Anonymous said ...
I am one of Lenore's grand daughters. I have about 25 years of ornaments. Every year I long for the new ornament. It is my favorite tradition. My mother (Lenore's daughter) has now started making ornaments for her grandchildren. I'm so happy my grandmother started this tradition & I look forward to making ornaments for my grandchildren. ~Rachel Hatch
12/9/2007 6:38 PM

This is completely marvelous . . . thank you so much for sharing this! It inspired me to go get an Octophrost stuffie pattern . . .
12/11/2007 1:48 AM

beth said ...
I'm inspired. This year is my first grandchild's first Christmas. I just ordered the Octophrost pattern to make for him. His parents are crazy Red Wings fans. The team fans have this deal about throwing an octopus on the ice after a goal. (Gross, I know, but I'm just reporting, not condoning). They will love the Octophrost.

Beth
www.applewd.com/blog/
12/12/2007 8:44 AM

Heymcjude said ...
That is one seriously excellent Granny! What a terrific job she did making all of those by hand.
12/18/2007 7:13 PM

arcady said ...
Hello!
Wanted to let you know I've posted your (well, Grandma Lenore's) lovely tree on my blog, 100christmastrees.blogspot.com. Non-commercial, just holiday fun. Full credit to you; if you have any problem with it let me know.
Best wishes,
arcady
12/21/2007 11:53 AM

Porter Reed said ...
I got one of these from grandma Lenore and I loved it.
6/8/2009 2:05 PM
 
futuregirl said ...
You're one lucky guy, Porter. :)
6/10/2009 12:22 AM

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