Thursday, October 25, 2007

All Self-Righteous Boobs, Raise Your Hands

I just got issue 05 of Craft Magazine (which is awesome) and there is a great "letter to the editor" which talks about crafty snob-ism.  Long story short, the woman writing the letter despised scrapbooking, then found herself making the equivalent of a digital scrapbook.  She realized that maybe she and the scrapbookers weren't all that different after all (except in matters of style and choice of media, perhaps).  Anyway, near the end of her letter, she says,
... it's impossible to be a crafter and be a self-righteous boob for too long.  One day you're making fun of tea cozies, and the next day you're getting all teary-eyed because your best friend crocheted you one ...
I'll be the first to raise my hand.  Oh, yes, I can be a self-righteous boob, but luckily I keep it to myself most of the time.  I've embarrassed myself enough to know that it's better to eat crow in the privacy of my craft room than on my blog.

Too often we seem to peel off into opposing cliques: the champions of natural fibers vs the thrifty users of acrylics, knitters vs crocheters, crafters vs artists, granny crafters vs craft punks ... it's so silly.  We should always acknowledge the value of making, no matter what people make or what they materials they are using, even if it's silently to ourselves.  

I'm not saying we should all be one big happy family, or that there isn't a difference between arts, crafts, or kinds of materials.  To each his own.  But everything has it's place and everything, and everyone, has their own strengths and weaknesses.  Who the heck are you to judge?

The next time you are itching to leave a snarky comment, give a backhanded compliment, or think you're Queen Sh*t of Poop Mountain, stop yourself and just click to the next blog ... you never know when someone else will do the same favor for you.
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est said ...
10/26/2007 12:54 AM
i second. you are absolutely right! who am i to judge/to claim 'that's my design'/i made that first!. things never end and the world is too big for us to bother bout that. i'll be silly enough to acknowledged i'm that first's. i always remind myself to enjoy the process of creating and own original-ting instead of comparing and copyrighting.

i hope i got yr meaning right and making sense here. :)


Sarah said ...
10/26/2007 3:01 AM
hear hear!!


macati said ...
10/26/2007 3:40 AM
HI!
you're so right. when I don't like a blog, I don't go back there or when I don't like something I never leave a mean comment... why bother the artist? someone likes it... at least the crafter and her/his proud mom... :)


beruta said ...
10/26/2007 7:33 AM
I have read the post 3 times! Weakness in english...(jajaja)
I also think that if you don`t like what you see, there`s no need to write it. We make handmade stuff, that means that everyone spend time and love making each item. That`s always valorable, no matter how it`s done.
We learn from everything, beautiful things, awful ones, and from everything we see, watch,touch, listen... The inspiration and the culture comes thru every sense, we can`t avoid it. So I think that we are all influenced from everyone, that why it`s so difficult to say who done it first!
So the best you can do is enjoy with the process and the result (that`s why we make them, no?), be honest with yourself and with the others!

Another nice talk here! Thanks!


Shannon said ...
10/26/2007 7:36 AM
so wise...


Laurie said ...
10/26/2007 9:05 AM
I believe in the old saying "If you don't have anything nice to say don't say anything at all." I know not everyone likes what I make and thank goodness they don't say so! LOL


Bitterbetty said ...
10/26/2007 9:19 AM
My favorite articles are always the ones that challenge my very foundation of alleged design sense.

Of course I am guilty of craft snobbery or perhaps an over inflated sense of my own personal craft boundaries.. but I also try and keep an open mind.. (I made a fairly fancy scrapbook of my vacation to Mexico and I own a tote full of the dread silk flowers.. Just in case.)

The funniest thing that can happen is to get all blissed out making something you never in a zillion year thought you would ever try.

Thanks FG.. another thoughtful post!


SisterDG said ...
10/26/2007 9:39 AM
Amen to that! It troubles me to see crafters trying to separate into "tribes."

On the one hand, I know it's human nature to cultivate a sense of belonging with like-minded people.

But for pete's sake, there's so much fertile ground for cross-pollination out there! The more we approach every aspect of crafty with an open mind, the more innovative we all become.


Alex said ...
10/26/2007 10:30 AM
First: That you're posting doves today is just awesome. Yesterday's bedtime-tale was about a dove that ate a too spicy pumpkin soup, started fire spitting, believing she was a dragon and flying into the skies to the clouds where she caught some raindrops that she then drank and suddenly felt like a ordinary dove again, scared to death because she never had been flying that high... Just on a sidenote, it was the first time I ever talked about doves in our bedtime tales. So - nice to see your doves.

About craft-snobism, you are so right. It is all a question of personal taste which you don't have to express all the time and you certainly should keep your mouth shut if you see something on another crafter's blog which seems to 'lack of taste'.

Great posting again.
I hope you will still be reading my blog now that you are a thinking blogger... ;)


meg said ...
10/26/2007 11:02 AM
oh, yes.

i'm more of a self-righteous boob about books, movies, music and t.v. which is ridiculous for so many reasons, not the least of which is my addiction to "people" magazine.


liz elayne said ...
10/26/2007 11:21 AM
yes, yes, yes! thank you for sharing this...oh how i love this post. i am sometimes astounded by the self-righteousness people have about things like the items you mention...until i suddenly find myself doing it in my head and i have to just crack up about it all.

here's to letting go of any need to be snarky...


myra said ...
10/26/2007 3:57 PM
Yes, yes! Another "right on" post. I am always shocked when anyone leaves a negative comment on a craft blog. I just like seeing and reading about people making stuff, no matter what the stuff is, especially when it makes them happy.


Casey said ...
10/26/2007 5:51 PM
My momma always taught me never to say anything belittling or mean to others. ;) lol. I totally agree with you; I am often turned off by outspoken snobbery. I don't mind if you voice your opinion of preferring one craft over another, cotton over polyester, etc. But what I do start to get annoyed about is when people comparing worth of a certain technique/material/craft to another, and saying one is inherently "better" than the other!

I like what Est said. Life is too short. Just move on and let the crafting continue! :)


sosser said ...
10/26/2007 6:08 PM
well said. thanks!


Fliss said ...
10/27/2007 8:58 AM
I agree with you! I learned my lesson on this a long time ago. I used to think that counted cross stitch was the saddest thing on Earth, but then I saw a Felicity Wishes one on eBay. She's named after me! I had a go, enjoyed it, realised it was more skillful than I thought and consequently ate much crow/humble pie :)


Stitch N Locks said ...
10/28/2007 6:34 AM
Well allllright. Got my worthy sermon for this Sunday morn. Yeah, and on my way to the Kingdom Hall to get the rest a lil later today too (I need it).

Great blog, love the layout, presentation of it! ;-)


Sherpa said ...
10/29/2007 8:04 AM
I grew up in the scrapbooking and cutesy craft capital of the world (Utah), and well, this post really hit home. Thanks. Who am I to judge the scrapbookers, the "cutesy" crafts etc?


jess said ...
10/30/2007 9:27 AM
Amen!


Marietta said ...
10/30/2007 7:50 PM
damn! i so wanted to leave a bitchy comment today and you just ruined it for me :)

ps - i cannot wait to get the sea horses - i love the phto op set ups! damn you are good!


Mendy at Modern Charm said ...
11/6/2007 10:55 AM
Love this! I put a link to this on my blog at http://moderncharm.blogspot.com/2007/11/good-stuff.html.


knitsteel said ...
11/8/2007 2:28 PM
Hoorah!


eviedee said ...
11/8/2007 5:32 PM
I AM THE QUEEN SH*T OF POOP MOUNTAIN! -and I heartily agree ;)


Rebecca said ...
11/9/2007 5:03 PM
Oh great post! If I don't like something I chalk it up to us all being different. Besides, it's not like someone is MAKING me read another person's blog. Who am I to judge? :) Here's to one be hadnmakin' family. cheers!

 
Tsoniki said ...
11/25/2007 10:57 PM
Naive girl checking in here - people leave snarky comments?? Seriously, the crafters I read (and I read A LOT - too much maybe? LOL) have awesome blogs/websites and I can't imagine saying something snippy to them!

And I hope noone would think to say something mean to me!


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