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Thursday, June 14, 2012

Letter Writer's Alliance Member # 002595

When I first moved to San Francisco at 22 in 1992, there wasn't an internet and there weren't cell phones.  the only way to communicate with all the friends and family I left back in the midwest was to try and catch them on their home phones or write them a letter.  And, if you remember (or know a little about history) back then, long distance calls cost money ... per-minute kind of money ... and being a very poor 22-year-old, I opted for letters.

I bought myself a pad of pastel paper and matching envelopes at the drugstore.  Every month on the 15th, I would take my writing supplies down to the Horseshoe Cafe in Lower Haight and write a letter to each person I knew.

I loved writing those letters.  It was great to look back on the last month of adventures and get them all down on paper.  But, I almost never got a response from anyone.  If my grandma had still been alive, she would have written back (she was a fun pen pal), but no one else seemed interested in striking up a correspondence with me.

Eventually I gave up and stopped writing my monthly letters.

Over the years I've taken advantage of any opportunity to send out hand-written letters.  Never with the idea that'd get anything in return, though.  Oh!  In one lovely exchange with Andrew's grandmother I wrote to ask for her oatmeal cookie recipe and received a hand-written recipe card in reply.

But my lack of letter writing outlets hasn't stopped me from amassing a crazy amount of stationery (mostly of the totes adorbs Japanese kind) which I keep in this brief-casey container.

The package on the outside is the set that broke the camel's back.  It wouldn't fit!

Why did I buy it?  Well, it had clowns made of felt with random buttons and stitching all over it.   How could I resist ?

What I didn't notice unti lI got it home (and can't explain) is that the set is titled "Skyser Craper."  Under that, in the pink letters, it says, "Full of joy.  I am in a good mood"  Come on!  It just keeps getting better and better. And there are 5 different envelopes and writing paper designs with the clowns.  #winning.

(Do you see the sheep on the right with the hearts-as-cheeks and bowtie saying, "I love you."  OMG, this stuff kills me with it's cuteness.)

But with all this stationery, something HAD to be done.  I can't just fill up our apartment with hilarious stationery that I'll never use.  I'd just seen (but still haven't listened to ... soooon) the Craftypod Letter Writers Alliance podcast (heres a link to the LWA itself).  That's the solution!  Write letters to other people who want to write letters!
When you join online, your welcome packet and login come IN THE MAIL.  The idea of this tickled me.  The reality of this was ... terrifying.  Is it on it's way?  Has it been intercepted?  Is someone enjoying my membership right now?!  Oh, no!

It's one thing to wait for a login email.  It's a whole other thing to wait for a letter with your password. Lessons in patience. :)

Once I was able to log into the website, I went in search of pen pals to find that the process was to mail them a request with some info about myself.  I cheerfully mailed off my request and waited ...
... and then my pen pal card came in the mail.

Tonight I wrote my first letter to my first pen pal.  It was a little surreal to start off from scratch with a person.  I set a limit of three pages for myself and just wrote.  It'll get posted in the morning.

Any of you members of LWA?  Do you have pen pals?  Do you like writing letters as much as you like getting them in the mail?
32 Comments leave a comment


Cris said ...
I am so glad I read this blog post. I am now an LWA member-in-waiting! I have thought about writing letters and enjoying letter writing like I was a kid - the excitement of waiting... but more importantly, I want to share it with my children as well. I want them to write letters and correspond with others NOT on a computer. I am hoping that I can get them each a pen pal from the LWA site and then have them also correspond with family and friends.

Thanks for a post that got me off my duff and signed up and waiting :)
6/14/2012 8:43 AM

Vivi said ...
Ooooooooooooh. I am also a collector of stationary (though I forced myself to stop for the same reasons) and I miss writing letters so much! I'm going to check out that link - I hope they accept international members!
6/14/2012 9:48 AM

futuregirl replied ...
Vivi ... They do! One of my pen pals is from overseas.
6/14/2012 11:43 AM

kingshearte said ...
That's awesome! I used to write letters to my university roommate, and she'd write me as well, but then she got insanely busy, and now we're lucky if we can manage to Skype or chat on facebook a few times a year. I still write letters if I can find a good excuse, and I love sending thank you cards in the mail whenever a suitable opportunity presents itself, but it really doesn't happen that often anymore. I must investigate this Letter Writers Alliance thing...
6/14/2012 10:23 AM

Kate said ...
Alice, you are so cool! Letter-writing is the best! I love to write letters and have a few amazing penpals that I got in touch with through the penpal groups on Ravelry (Penpals and P.S. I Knit). I hope that you have fun with the Letter Writer's Alliance - I'd like to check it out myself. Any chance on an update at some point? It would be great to hear if it works out well for you!
6/14/2012 11:18 AM

futuregirl replied ...
Kate ... I will happily post an update when I hear back from my pen pals. :)
6/14/2012 11:43 AM

Kelly said ...
Ooh, neat! I'm going to sign up right now. I also am a member of http://postcrossing.com, which is a fun way to send post cards around the world and receive them back from other random people. This seems like fun too!

Thanks!
6/14/2012 12:20 PM

futuregirl replied ...
Kelly ... Ooo! Thanks for the link.
12/2/2012 3:31 PM

Mel said ...
I'm terrible for collecting stationary, but never writing letters. I occasionally send my best friends letters, but usually it is emails these days for me. I'm going to have to check out the LWA, see if it's open to UKers :)
6/14/2012 2:50 PM

Sam said ...
OMG, did you see the Pigeon Post?! Thanks for sharing about this, I'm so in!

6/14/2012 7:17 PM

Gwen said ...
My daughter (just turned 13) has been exchanging correspondence with my husband's BFF and her daughter. Daughter is 5 years old and Mom is a graphic designer/letterpress printer with a penchant for kitch and nostalgia. So you can imagine what these past two plus years of exchange have looked like. Very interesting, lots of stamps, stickers, dingbats.....etc.
Our daughters share a love of Hello Kitty. Enough said there.
We also had 3 (of her)friends move out of state during the last 3 years. More letters, photos, journals, halves of BFF necklaces. Lots of creative exchange.
Me? This is about as much writing as I can muster. I barely even Facebook for goodness sakes!
I did used to call my grandmother every month, and sometimes sent her cookies :) Does that count?

6/14/2012 8:03 PM

futuregirl replied ...
Gwen ... Yes! That counts. :)
12/2/2012 3:33 PM

I adore snail mail! In college (96-99) I wrote to a friend and my grandpa sporadically. It was always so nice to receive a friendly letter after a long day. After the novelty of email wore off, I had a few postcard exchanges with art friends but nothing consistent. In the last year I started mail art correspondence with one lovely online friend. It's since ballooned into 20 swap partners! I never tire of getting to know someone from their art, paper scraps, handwriting and correspondence.

Your paper stash looks very friendly and fun! I'm hoping you'll occasionally share more from your new alliance in the future.
6/15/2012 8:38 AM

Kimmifer said ...
It's amazing that you've come across this! They just did a piece on the LWA in the local paper and I've been meaning to join ever since! They even have meeting times at coffee shops and things, so that you can sit and write with other people.
I love snail mail and stationery as well. I did purge much of my hoard when we moved to a new city a few months back, but have been looking forward to making my own paper. Maybe this is just the motivation I need!
6/15/2012 8:48 AM

Perhaps my generation (end of the baby boomers) - as a group - is the last of the letter writers. With half my family in Norway and the other half in California, letter writing was the ONLY way of communicating. Long distance telephone calling was outrageously expensive. I'm glad there are still letter writing enthusiasts!
6/15/2012 8:49 AM

Anna said ...
Letter writing is a lost art. It makes me so happy to know that there are folks out there who still enjoy writing and receiving letters.
I use to collect stationary back in my high school days, and still buy little note cards just because I like them.
There is nothing like opening your mailbox to find an envelope with actual human handwriting on it.
Thank you for this post Alice. And write on!!!! (as my children would say, cheesy mom!!! )
6/15/2012 10:14 AM

LeeAnn said ...
Letter writing is a favorite hobby of mine. I am bringing back the THANK YOU! card. :) This spring my 9 year old niece asked if I would be her penpal this summer. I squeeled in delight! I do need to be better about sending birthday cards though.
6/15/2012 10:44 AM

Ann said ...
I love all things 'fountain pens', as soon as I read your blog about the LWA I decided to join. I am looking forward to receiving my little members pack. I live in Sydney, Australia with most of my relations living in the UK. When we came to Australia over 50 years ago as a 9 year old, I was the letter writer for the family, taking after my Dad. Thank you for this website.
6/16/2012 4:31 AM

cara said ...
aw man, that sounds like fun!
as soon as I order *anything* I'm all "ooooh, maybe it'll be here... tomorrow!" I like to think the mailbox has the potential to yield some wonderful surprise any given day.
6/17/2012 3:20 PM

Amy said ...
Oh, I LOVE the postal service. If it doesn't get used enough, it will disappear. I live in Dublin; I write to my friend in New Zealand, and to another friend in Bali. I write to a friend in Doolin (west coast of Ireland, not far geographically, but the roads are terrible...) regularly, and she replies; we always include a teabag and a small chocolate bar in the envelope so we can have a cuppa while reading the letter- it's a cuppa and a chat, you see? Who needs email! When you don't see someone regularly, news is always old. Your stationary collection is fab by the way. I write on whatever I can find, paper bags, old envelopes, the back of defunct reports from work. Sorry, kinda waffling here, but, man I love the postal service!
6/17/2012 4:39 PM

Susie said ...
Wow! I was just talking to my kids about this. Every summer, our family spends a week at the beach with my sister's family and our mother, and I have a tradition of writing letters on the beach. I have my own little plastic briefcase full of stationery (I'm also partial to the cute Japanese kind -- I think it's because that's what I wrote on as a kid, when there was no email!), which I pack in beach tote every day we're there.

What I was telling my kids is that handwritten letter writing brings out more honest communication from me, because I cannot go back and easily edit what I'm writing. Don't get me wrong -- I think being able to edit an email before I hit send is extremely useful in most circumstances, but there's something to be said for spontaneous, handwritten heart-to-heart.

I'm going to have to look into the LWA!
6/20/2012 6:48 AM

futuregirl replied ...
Susie ... I agree with you. The letters I'm writing are so different from what I'd put in an email. The other difference is once it's mailed, I can't go back and reread it over and over. It's out of my hands and mind. I kind of like that aspect. :)
12/2/2012 3:32 PM

Agnès said ...
hello Alice,
reading your page , i totally recognized myself..i am also a new member of LWA !!And i am waiting for the adress of my penpal's swap as you, impatiently!it's strange beeing so impatient now, with all these easy connections, waiting simply for a letter!
I lives in France and will turn 47 next summer!
Don't hesitate to contact me!
warm reagrds
Agnès
6/20/2012 10:22 AM

I love, love, love the snail mail idea, but, same as you, I don't hear back much from people I write too!! I'm also in my early twenties, so it's not completely a dying form. :) I'm glad someone else feels the same way. :)
6/22/2012 5:44 AM

Carole70 said ...
Hi, I just found your blog after a research for a gardening tool belt. I like "blog-hopping" and when I saw your post about writing letters, it took me back to the 90's when I had tons of penpals all over the world and we swapped friendship books, postcards, stamps, and whatnots ! I don't know if I would have the time now to write letters, but I sure will check out the LWA ! Have a nice day !
6/25/2012 6:51 AM

Janna said ...
My freshman year of high school in my Intro to French class, we were given pen pals across the pond. 14 years and quite a few letters later, my pal and his darling family will be joining us on holiday next year.
6/28/2012 1:48 PM

futuregirl replied ...
Janna ... I love that story! :)
7/1/2012 12:27 AM

I love this, too, and I think I'm going to join LWA! I bought _Good Mail Day_ a few months ago and so want to start doing "mail art." But the real reason for my comment?! You MUST tell where you get your Japanese stationery. I LOVE it. I'm a pen freak and order often from Tokyo Pen Shop, and when my husband and I visited Japan some years ago the only thing I wanted as souvenirs are pens. I love Japanese pens!
7/12/2012 2:26 PM

futuregirl replied ...
Beth @ Remarkably Domestic ... I get my Japanese stationery from Daiso and Kinokuniya here in San Francisco (or the Kinokuniya in L.A.). Cannot resist it!
7/21/2012 4:35 PM

alilee said ...
I was inspired by your post to join LWA as I used to write to lots of penpals in my teens.I've also joined postcrossing and have sent postcards to China, Estonia,Taiwan, USA and Russia.My first sent postcard was registered today so I can now receive a postcard from another user from anywhere in the world.
7/18/2012 1:42 AM

Martha J. said ...
I'm a big fan of letter writing. I think that I need to get more adorable Japanese stationary. My stash consists largely of handmade and hand printed Indian stationary from when I lived there a few years back. I know that this isn't the point of your post, but where did you get the plastic briefcase? Seems like the perfect carrier to take to the park when I write my letters.
8/10/2012 10:08 AM
 
Kestrel said ...
Hello there! I am a member of LWA and have been for...wow, almost two years now. It's always great fun and I love all of your wonderful papers! If you're not yet overwhelmed and interested in another Pen Pal, let me know scanning your blog tells me we would have a lot in common. :)
Also, where did you get that fantastic carrier? I sure could use something similar.
10/19/2012 11:13 AM

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