Tuesday, August 01, 2006

Thinking, Not Crafting

(This was inspired by Green Kitchen's post and the posts she references that talk about craft blogs and the image craft bloggers project.  I started to leave this as a comment on her blog, but then I realized I had a lot more to say than should be left in a comment.)

When I first discovered craft blogs, all the prolific, beautiful, seemingly-perfect ones really intimidated me.  Would people expect *me* to be witty in every fucking post? Would *my* crafts have to be so incredibly cute that butterflies flew out of the ears of everyone that looked at them? Must *I* post several times a week?  Ugh.  It seemed like an overwhelming prospect.

All I wanted was to get pictures of my stuffies posted on craftingjapanese.org.  And, at first, I just emailed Maitreya images and she would post them.  Then I started reading Maitreya's other blog, craftlog.org.  I liked her down- to- earth writing.  She is very crafty and I love almost everything she makes, but sometimes her projects are just practical, and occasionally she would share her craft disasters.  She seems like a real person, not a shiny craft goddess.

Maitreya's sites are a gold mine of links. Pretty quickly, I discovered there are lots of bloggers out there that don't post everyday, whose crafts are funny or goofy or silly or weird or just utilitarian, who don't take award-winning photos, and who write like real people.  They are craft bloggers who are just *really* into crafting.  And those blogs have become my favorites.

Eventually I started my own blog so I could talk about my crafts and get some feedback.  I was surprised at how much I love it and how much fun it is.   I don't like group activities and I thought of blogging as a group thing.  It's not like that for me, though.  For me, it's many one-on-one conversations.

On my blog, I focus on crafting and keep the personal info to a minimum, but I try to make sure that my posts are a reflection of me and not a projection of some fake Alice.  When I find myself considering what blog readers might want me to craft (or not craft) or to say (or not say), I force myself to be balls-out Alice.

So far that approach has worked really well for me.  I never would have guessed that my most popular crafts would be the edgy ones, or my use of the phrase "fuck me blue" would make people giggle themselves silly.  Plus, I *really* like the people who comment on my posts.  If the people I like, like me back, then I must be doing something right.

I have no idea what image I project.  My guess is that there are as many perceptions of me as there are people perceiving.  I'm lucky to have Andrew to take the kick ass photos, and I'm lucky that I do web stuff for a living.  With the photos and the technical stuff taken care of, there is more time for crafting.

Just in case my blog implies otherwise, I want you to know that my craft-reality is far from ideal.  I have very little time to craft.  My space is a mess (evidence above).  I have four projects going and I will probably start a fifth before I finish any of them.   I neglect actually-important things (like cleaning and sleep) to do craft-important things.  I have been working on one tiny stuffie for over a month now, and I all I have to show is an faceless head and a pile of deformed body parts.  I have plans for a million-and-one swaps, but I don't want to propose them until I know I have the time to make my half.   I take crocheting with me everywhere - the doctor's office, movies, the kitchen, visits to relatives - just to maximize my craft time.

In spite of all that, I love my craft blog. And, as long as it's fun, I'm going to keep doing it.
16 Comments leave a comment


Marietta said ...
8/1/2006 9:10 PM
damn skippy!! - feel the same - also not a joiner - but love the late night "relationship" i have with the craft bloggers - no expectations and it is okay to not be there everyday - love the messy workspace - too embarased to show off my space :)


Green Kitchen said ...
8/1/2006 9:39 PM
hi alice, this topic sure seems to get peple writing. thanks for you last couple of awesome posts. i'd like to write something more thoughtful, but i've been taking care of a sick babe. no crafting today and not much blogging.


laurie said ...
8/1/2006 10:27 PM
I love your craft blog, too. *grin*


Maitreya said ...
8/1/2006 11:29 PM
You are such a sweetheart! :)


Dawbis said ...
8/2/2006 7:21 AM
i like that everyone is beginning to express the real side of themselves :) but i understand otherwise. like marietta said, no expectations. :)


normanack said ...
8/2/2006 10:05 AM
Thanks for saying what I needed to hear -- we're not perfect, and that makes us better people, eh? Or at least more interesting ones!

I constantly fight pressure (from myself) to post prettiness. What I really want to show is guts -- the inner, the truly felt, the sometimes ugly but always real.

Thanks again.


Bitterbetty said ...
8/2/2006 8:34 PM
I have always held to the belief that only dull women have immaculate homes, get enough sleep, or finish everything they start.


wendy said ...
8/3/2006 7:28 PM
I still giggle at your blue phrase...


Kuky said ...
8/3/2006 9:32 PM
Bitterbetty's comment is funny. According to her belief I am definitely not dull! But of course I don't think of my blog as a crafty blog since I seem to craft in spurts and am in fact in another crafting dry spell. I draw and talk about Isabelle a lot more than I craft.

And I love coming to your site. And since I use bloglines I'm never aware of how often people post. I'm just happy to see an update.


ashley g said ...
8/5/2006 6:26 PM
Oh..how I agree with you! I loved looking at blogs, but was so intimidated by the seeminly perfectness of them all. Especially the photos. I love knowing that there are lots of "us" out there. And you call that messy? Oh, if you ever saw my apartment and craft area :)


macati said ...
8/6/2006 2:35 PM
Hi!
I have a little challenge in my blog. Do you want to participate?
hugs,
manela


Aurora said ...
8/8/2006 2:16 PM
You are FUNNY! And I'm glad to find you ( following all the links from my original post on this subject) Who woulda thunk?

Personally I have bigger goals than trying to fit into a skirt made out of a pillowcase.

Love ya!


Shannon said ...
8/8/2006 8:14 PM
Its a common vein running through the blogosphere, yes those perfect crafters shit me, I find it hard not to compare myself even though I am SOOO different, in aesthetic and interests. Its reading posts like this and Green Kitchens that remind me that no one but myself expects me to go at the same pace as the others...


Frizz said ...
8/10/2006 7:45 AM
Thank god we are starting to hear the real side of creating. I start to second guess my self given title as an "artist" because I'm not keeping up with the blog neighbors. I think we need to remember we are all living our own realities - if one craft a month is all you can do that's great. I'm such a procrastinator but so are others out there. It doesn't mean I'm not an artist, right?


Anonymous said ...
2/2/2007 4:19 PM
Hi ;)
heh... what demented news!
what do U think about it?

 
EnthusiasticallyHuman said ...
2/10/2007 2:47 PM
i love this post, and what a relief.


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