For years and years I've had this million-dollar idea that I was going to start a self-help movement where the premise is that people are their own problem.  I'd name the book "You're The F*cking Problem."  I would point out all the ways people create their own poopy worlds and then brow beat them (or get them to brow beat themselves ... this *is* self-help) into shaping up.

I know!  Brilliant.  

Right?

Well, don't judge me too quickly.  Time just ran an article about the power of negative thinking and how it figures into the third wave of psychology (which is apparently being spearheaded by Uncle Fester).

Who's the negative nancy now?